Are you struggling with your relationship, unsure about your partner, and wondering how to move forward? Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a four-week online program that's going to get you unstuck.
You don't want to wake up and realize you've wasted a year (or more) trying to build a life with someone who's not willing or able to fulfill your needs!
If you and your partner aren't all-in, throwing intimacy tips at you won't do anything to change that; you'll just be spinning your wheels. The first step is committing to your relationship.
So over the next four weeks, we're going to help help you get clear on what you want from your partner, and whether or not they can provide that for you.
With each step you'll move out of uncertainty and doubt, and into a place of clarity and empowerment. And each week, you'll gather vital information to aid in your choice.
So when it's time to decide whether you're going to fully commit yourself to this relationship, or if it’s time to go in a new direction, you'll have the ability to choose your path with confidence and compassion.
'"Should I Stay or Should I Go?' is a beautiful roadmap for any relationship. Lisa and Trevor give crystal-clear insights, using accessible language with plenty of real-life examples and scenarios. There's humor, deep dive inquiry, and much more packed into this course. The videos are concise and to the point, yet provoke deep curiosity about the nature of our intimate relationships. This course is a must for anyone thinking about staying, and anyone thinking about going!" - B.P.
I love this program because it's so practical and easy to understand. Facing my emotions has always been a barrier for me in relationships, so the module on feelings was just what I needed. While working on the program, I had a chance to apply the "Drop the Blame, Drop the Complaint" principles and I was so glad to have those tools when I needed them! Trevor and Lisa are a great pair, gifted professionals, and enjoyable to watch. I highly recommend this course. - R.Q.
Here we'll be introducing the core concepts that we'll be coming back to throughout each module. You'll learn about connectors and separators, and how you and your partner are playing out these roles in your relationship (for better or worse).
We’ll help you let go of all the blame, complaints, and resentments that have been clouding your view of the relationship. We’ll be helping you take back your power and responsibility and start making choices for yourself again.
We’ll help you move past the reactive, defensive behaviors that come up when you try to avoid your emotions, and help you see how your old triggers and stories might be creating a fiction about your current relationship.
We’ll give you the tools you need to advocate for yourself clearly and effectively, and help you gain a better understanding of how much your partner is willing and able to show up in your relationship.
We’ll help you get out of your own way and remove all the self-sabotaging habits that are stopping you from receiving what your partner’s giving. We’ll help get you to a place where you can trust that you’re seeing your relationship clearly.
This is what it's all about; deciding to commit yourself fully to your relationship, or to move on to something new. No matter what you decide, we'll help you deal with any resistance and doubts that come up, and help you move forward with confidence and compassion.
Trevor operates a private therapy practice where he helps couples, families and children overcome their repetitive patterns, develop a healthy and confident sense of self and generate transformational changes in their life. He is certified by PACT and SPT (Synergetic Play Therapy), and is continually seeking to deepen his understanding of the human condition.
“Trevor is brilliant at cutting right to the core, framing issues that once seemed convoluted with clarity and simplicity. He is intelligent and insightful and uses these qualities to guide people toward understanding their inner workings and break out of long-term self-sabotaging patterns. Trevor is a gifted therapist and will be an asset to any client that comes through his door.” - Jordan Urban
In addition to running a practice of her own, Lisa serves as a faculty member at the Psychology & Yoga Studies department of Naropa University. She has extensive experience in conventional and non-conventional approaches to healing, and has helped couples, adults, and young adults navigate both spiritual and psychological challenges.
"Lisa is a rare gem of a therapist. She is both highly skilled professionally and deeply attuned energetically. I have witnessed her huge heart and sharp insights facilitate lasting transformation and healing for her clients. For no-nonsense and loving therapeutic support, I highly recommend Lisa." - Zvi Ish-Shalom PhD.
Absolutely not! We're not here to push you one way or the other. We don’t want you to break up with your partner; we also won’t try to get you to stay together. We're going to give you the tools you need to make the best possible choice for yourself.
In-person sessions can be very helpful for couples who’ve decided to stay together. Our program is here to help you make that decision, and as such, it’s a crucial first step to take before you consider therapy, retreats, or more intensive options.
Our program is for anyone who’s feeling uncertain about their current relationship, whether that’s a marriage, partnership, long-term relationship, or even a brand-new relationship!
Our teachings and exercises don’t assume any gender roles; instead, we focus on the emotional roles people tend to play within their relationships. As such, it’s inclusive to all genders and all couples!
If your partner wants to take this program with you, that's great! But one of the most common issues people face is having a partner who's not willing to work on the relationship with them. So with that in mind, this program is designed to work for both individuals and couples.
If you're experiencing any form of abuse - be it verbal, emotional, or physical - close this page and go to the Victim Connect hotline resource. Abuse goes beyond the scope of this program, so please seek help right now.
You're not alone in this; we’ve created an online support community where members can post their questions and share their experiences, and we’re here in this community on a daily basis to help you move past any sticking points.
We realize that your relationship struggle may be a sensitive issue, so our support community is private and accessible to members only. You can choose to use your full name or an alias for anonymity, whichever you feel more comfortable with.
If you’re ready to take a step towards that future, click the button below and we'll see you there!
Regular Price: $597
Limited-Time Offer: $297